To be honest, there is no something wrong of being nice. And most of us, have some perspective of being nice is only because to get the feedback later. perhaps of being nice because it is a sincerity but rather be to get the advantages upon being nice to people. And now a days, humans always have the high expectation of being nice to others and make it as the gun to asked or demands every action they had been given. When actually it is only hurt them in the very end of place. Even though they already know how it gonna be end soon, but they still hope for the better is yet to come. Because they already have the mindset if they are nice to people then people will follow their rules even the truth it is not at all. So it is okay to be nice as long as you don't have to put the high expectation among your deed later. because, believe me it will hurt you sooner or later.

And also, many people love to question themselves "why do i have to be nice to people, if in the end they will just disappoint me?" And this is also happen to myself, as i keep to ask myself why do i have to instead of just doing it so. Because the truth is i am not a saint or yet a good person. And honestly, i am still demand for every deed i had given to people. But, as i grew up there are a lot of lessons that i can take and learn. And also i met so much valuable people in my life and they teach me that teacher couldn't. People with a lot of differences make me realize we are not capable to control them. We could not asked them to be what we hope them to. They are not a machine we can control whatever we want them to. And every kind of types of humans made me realize that they have their own rules too. 

We can learn from the books, social media, people (good nor bad) and so on. and once, when i checked on my friend's camera roll, as she screen captured that quotation and it said "my father taught me just being nice to people and be mean later. because when you are being mean to people in the very first place, then people will be not believe you when you decide to being nice after being mean."  we can take the lesson from that simple quote but yet still meaningful. so, actually being nice is about an option. you can be whatever you want to be, nice or mean. but in this case, you must choose wisely, because not everyone will agree with you in the end. your option, your judge. 

But then again, instead of being mean, it's better to you to make everyone around you happy. and it is not about the good image you spread to them, but it is about the sincerity. because when it comes to sincerity you will not expect too high. but actually, it is okay to expect good feedback (to motivate you more of being nice) but expect too high is forbid here. because trust me, it will only hurt you in the end. people will not take any responsibility of their action or they will not take any good respond if they willing to. and also, it concern with patience. being nice need more extra patience. but most of people, use this one of kindness only for their propensity. but trust me, your patience will introduce you to better people and make you realize who is worth and who is unworthy.