I was thinking randomly like, what if the comfort zone we've built to people, make us less appreciate a little thing? to the things we've shared, the moments we've been through, and so on. many times, we didn't realize that we've skipped or even forgot to feel blessed. Like you've made a circle interaction with people and you've built the comfort zone, but you just take them for granted because you have that thought you'll always have time for tomorrow.
Honestly, I am not the kind of friend whom would ask how your day was or ask how were you everyday. But at least, i tried so hard not to forget to say thank you or even sorry whenever i asked someone a favor or if i was mistaken. i know it wasn't easy at the first time, but as long as you keep the faith and put it in your mind, i obviously sure you gradually and constantly will do the same.
And i know, some people might have a thought, is it necessary to say thank you or sorry over a little thing when we've already known that the person we asked or felt guilty absolutely know we've already feel thanks and sorry implicitly? Alright, let say they've known it, but i would like to stressing in How we can appreciate people by a little thing that we rarely do to our closest friend but it actually would means a lot.
I was amazed when i was in my older friend's kost and she introduced her friends to me and they all said please or thank you or sorry over a little thing. not because they were dramatically obsessed with such an honor or so on but through what i saw, they appreciated each other by the things people rarely realize and even forgotten.
For a simple example, our mom have many times cooked us meals but have we shown our gratitude in a way of thank you mom for cooking to me. I'm sure we rarely say that, but actually if we do, i believe our mom would feel the bliss. even though it was only over a small thing.
And last but not least, do it with the closest person in our life because insensibly, we might forgot because we are already in that comfort zone so we're automatically have that point of view those people as our closest people might implicitly known we've already thanks or sorry. But then again, let us make a good habit and behaviour and appreciate more over little things to our dearest people. Because i know if it only goes to an acquaintance, we will say thankyou or sorry even if we're not intended to just because to show the good manners.
XoXo-F


