We all know that love needs sacrifice and proofs, and i think people deserve it though. Love is not something cheesy or nasty if we really appreciate it. Love is not always about having a boyfriend or girlfriend, but it includes the family, best friend, friends. I purposely put this topic just because some people tend to believe that love should be expressed by words and acts. But actually there are so many ways to expressed how to spread the love to the loved one.
So, Here are 5 Love Languages you need to know to pleasure someone you love. Hope it helps though!
1. Words of Encouragement.
This is the most good communication to upgrade your relationship. I bet everyone like to get the encouragement by someone they love. It's going to make you feel warm and comfortable. When the one you care the most feel under and this is the good time to courage them well because it mentally will influence their psychological to feel more better. Praised them because they already do their best at something and motivate them if they failed. It will makes them feel wanted and love because they realized someone still give a damn care about them.
2. Acts of Service.
Beside words of encouragement, the other important rules is Acts of service. Give your attentions so they feel someone cares about 'em. Acts of service mean you need to show that you really care about them. There are so many kind of ways to show how you love them sincerely, for the examples like when the one you love is sick and you take care of them, get them the medicine and cook for 'em. Spend your time with them just because you want to leisured every precious moments. And what about your family? You can help your parents do the chore and also neat the house and give 'em a lil massage when their back is ache. So, it is up to you to express the love and care because everyone has their own style.
3. Quality time.
Have you spend your quality time with them? if no, then you should now! Quality time means you only spend your time without any annoyance with the one you love. Whenever i meet my boyfriend, i never focused on my phone and just put the phone away and only checked one to two times if something really important. And perhaps my boyfriend will keep mine and i keep his. You also can go for a short trip to somewhere that haven't you visited before. And you also can do the things that you guys always did in the old times together again and embrace the old reminiscences. Or you can go to the supermarket buying the groceries and cook together. Well, there are so many ideas to create and have the quality time with the one you love! have a nice try :)
4. Physical Touch.
Well, i don't know if some people really do this stuffs. But for me, i rarely use this way because I'm in long distance relationship so i didn't have so much time expressing my care thru physical touch. But, I think, this is also important because some people tend to believe that if someone really care and love about them then they would hug and kiss 'em. it's all because everyone has their 'way to receive the confessions. I love being hugged and kissed even though if my mom, dad and boyfriend didn't use this way, i won't be fed up because there are still many ways to expressed. The other options such as like peck a cheek, caress hair, and etc.
5. Gift Giving.
And the last but not least, in order you are in long distance relationship, this kind of way really suit you best sometimes. But this is also work for not long distance relationship couple. By the way, who's not feel happy to receive a gift by someone you love? well no one. I don't know why, but send a gift just because ( no need reasons ) really melt my heart. Today, i got something cute from my boyfriend and this is really unsuspected. A bottle with the writing on it says "Stay Hydrated, Nty♥ " really made my day. And sometimes i sent him gift too just because i want. This is all about give and give and not give and take. Just send a simple goods and it doesn't have to be expensive, but if you want you can save the money before so don't need to ask your parents because it's a shame.
And sending a gift to you parents also really made their day, i mean like they didn't ask us about fancy stuffs in return but this is just because to show your caring and love. Once, i send my parents a pop up frame made by me for their 20th wedding anniversary and they were happy for it. And if they are happy, of course I'm happy too. Well, if you never send gift before because of the thought "Oh, they never did it to me" then you can be the one who do it first ;)
Thank you for reading!
3. Quality time.
Have you spend your quality time with them? if no, then you should now! Quality time means you only spend your time without any annoyance with the one you love. Whenever i meet my boyfriend, i never focused on my phone and just put the phone away and only checked one to two times if something really important. And perhaps my boyfriend will keep mine and i keep his. You also can go for a short trip to somewhere that haven't you visited before. And you also can do the things that you guys always did in the old times together again and embrace the old reminiscences. Or you can go to the supermarket buying the groceries and cook together. Well, there are so many ideas to create and have the quality time with the one you love! have a nice try :)
4. Physical Touch.
Well, i don't know if some people really do this stuffs. But for me, i rarely use this way because I'm in long distance relationship so i didn't have so much time expressing my care thru physical touch. But, I think, this is also important because some people tend to believe that if someone really care and love about them then they would hug and kiss 'em. it's all because everyone has their 'way to receive the confessions. I love being hugged and kissed even though if my mom, dad and boyfriend didn't use this way, i won't be fed up because there are still many ways to expressed. The other options such as like peck a cheek, caress hair, and etc.
5. Gift Giving.
And the last but not least, in order you are in long distance relationship, this kind of way really suit you best sometimes. But this is also work for not long distance relationship couple. By the way, who's not feel happy to receive a gift by someone you love? well no one. I don't know why, but send a gift just because ( no need reasons ) really melt my heart. Today, i got something cute from my boyfriend and this is really unsuspected. A bottle with the writing on it says "Stay Hydrated, Nty♥ " really made my day. And sometimes i sent him gift too just because i want. This is all about give and give and not give and take. Just send a simple goods and it doesn't have to be expensive, but if you want you can save the money before so don't need to ask your parents because it's a shame.
And sending a gift to you parents also really made their day, i mean like they didn't ask us about fancy stuffs in return but this is just because to show your caring and love. Once, i send my parents a pop up frame made by me for their 20th wedding anniversary and they were happy for it. And if they are happy, of course I'm happy too. Well, if you never send gift before because of the thought "Oh, they never did it to me" then you can be the one who do it first ;)
Thank you for reading!
XoXo-F
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